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Saturday, September 29, 2012

Laughing Out Loud!






Conversation & Laughter !
A woman wants laughter...
A conversation  that is
 full of sparkling wit..
studded with humor!
A woman's life is full of care , not because there is trouble and sorrow , but because she instinctively cares.
Care sometimes is worry...Banish that care....bring in laughter...mutual ,happy , joyful laughter!

Conversation please!

Conversation.
Not necessarily a conversation that is sparkling with wit and studded with humor  , not even one that has too many compliments that flatter , not one that is all about the workplace and the big and the small successes and setbacks..not even about emotional issues.

A woman wants a conversation .It is a conversation that is simple give and take of ourselves.
A conversation that says...i am here ...i am listening..i am here with you...and i am sharing.

Silence and words both...bringing her a peacefulness of joyous belonging.




A conversation that looks at the rest of the world...but together!

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Of kittens...well sort of..and coffee!


Sometimes a woman is a less of a woman and more of a kitten...
Strange but true!
And so she wants all things ...but in a manner that is...kittenish!





And where there first coffee is concerned they would not wait...

No ..not at all..not for the first cup!!




Sometimes a woman wants to be like a kitten   who purr and meow while he is making his cuppa...

 and then nudge him to let her sip too. 
And if at all he doesn't, POUNCE! :D
.....let her be...a kitten!



Coffee or tea?

 A woman wants a man....



 Not any man....but a man who knows her brew...



 Remember the iconic saga of romance DDLJ...Raj brings a cuppa to Simran..at the train station and then they proceed to talk about love.
So ..one may say ..what is the big deal about it ?
Is there even a big deal about it?
No ..Not really!!
But what does he say while bringing her cup?
 Half a teaspoon of sugar , one spoon of of milk , a bit of cream. Your Coffee.
There it is. He knows what she wants.
He knows how she likes her coffee...in knowing ..he understands her.

Does she like her tea black ? Does she like a big morning cuppa ?
In finding out lies understanding...
The magic mantra...
 Half a teaspoon of sugar , one spoon of of milk , a bit of cream
 Your Coffee....or your tea.

 

 









Monday, September 24, 2012

sweet fluff and all that dreamy stuff..





Sleepy
 Saturday afternoons...

Lazy
Sunday mornings..

Slow
waking ups ..

Or
 no waking ups..

A woman wants ..




A pair of the softest fluff on her feet that are like a magic carpet flying from a warm cocoon of her own personal space to a beautiful fairy tale world of softest feelings and shared laughter...

barefoot by the sea!

At other times...
A woman wants a barefoot walk..
with the sand crunching beneath her feet..
with the breeze in her hair..

A woman content in her own world..
However sometimes..

A woman wants the sports shoe..the comfy sneaker!
The woman is not a woman, she is a girl!
The girl who wore pigtails just yesterday...
who climbed trees ..and played football while bunking classes....
who was as tough as her best buddy who was..well ..as tough as her!
The girl who jogged in the park just because she wanted to...
the girl who danced in the rain because she felt like it...
the girl who beat up the school bully because he was rude to a timid little junior..
the same girl is here.
She wants freedom to assert herself...

However at other times...

a smile to begin with..and stilleto heels!

Women want a pair of impossibly high heels that make their ankles look divine...
When a woman visualizes glamor and romance ...a designer creation swathing her in layers of dreamy confection of a dress that is sensual and elegant at the same time..when she thinks of getting out a limousine  on the red carpet..the first image is of a sleek ankle encased in the highest of high heels.

Stiletto shoes.
The beginning of a walk that would be perfect.
Even if these heels may seem to be instruments of torture not really meant for living feet.
High heels remain an object of desire..
And just what a woman wants..because they are part of her smile and self.
So how high can a woman go?


However sometimes...

to begin with..

This is my version of woman talk.....and girl talk.
What women want...as well as what they don't want.
This will leap and jump from simple to complex , ridiculous to sublime ,emotional to spiritual , intellectual to physical , sexual to sensual and prosaic to poetic.

Women ..join in and say your say..
Gentlemen...get no say!