The perfect evening .the perfect handshake!.

What happens now..

Is it a beginning ? Is it a beginning of something beautiful..
or worth her while...
or something interesting ...
it is there in her smile...
it is there in her look..

A beginning depends on the first handshake.

A handshake must be firm,conveying warmth accompanied by direct eye contact.
it establishes that moment...two strangers who are ready to be friends..or more.

What does etiquette say about this?
This is what it has to say....
A proper handshake: is firm, but not bone-crushing  ..lasts about 3 seconds
...the lady's hand may be "pumped" once or twice from the elbow.. is released
 after the shake, even if the introduction continues  and  , the most important being
 that it always includes good eye contact with the other person..

So what is good eye contact..one may ask...we shall come to that..soon!

Handbags!!!!!!! A woman wants a handbag and another and another and so on and so forth..

What does a woman's handbag tell her?
Not what it tells about her...no no no..
It is about what does the handbag say to her..
But it has to be a certain handbag.
The right one!

A handbag that is just right.Right color..right size..
right brand...right shape...right today...maybe not so right
tomorrow!

Because tomorrow is another day .
Another day calls for another bag!

Maybe a big one in beige..

But then tomorrow can not stay forever ..
The next day!

Maybe she feels like spring even in the middle of winters!

So it has to be yellow and big because she likes to carry
her world in her hand bag!

But the next day too is too fickle !

So it calls for a different take on life
and the world and everything in it!

So is it this one or that one or the other one??

Because she is not ready to step out till...

her handbag tells her that she is !

That perfect evening...begins.

So now that the perfect evening is here
The one s
this woman has been waiting for...
How will it begin and how will it end?

The doorbell rings.

Here you are at the door.

She moves towards the door

with a hundred thoughts...

and a million fears..

and a zillion dreams..

Have you shed your troubles of the day?
Have you left behind the traffic jams
 that you found on the way?

Have you stopped thinking about
 the workday that is now over..
that deal lost...that deal made...?

Did you think about her during the day?
Are you really here?

In all honesty...are you happy to see her..
are you smiling...by now...and the roses...
What about the roses?

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A woman wants a real smile...
flowers...chocolates...wine..
Oh yes!! That too!

Because she is already a step ahead.

.

a step ahead...
with those million dreams
just
shimmering in her eyes..
So what happens now..

So what is a woman thinking when she says that it is nothing.... yet there is a question in her eyes?

So what is it that is left unsaid and unasked...

When she says it is nothing yet..there is so
much said...
When she recieves a text message on her
mobile from you she wonders..
what are you doing right now..as you
think of her...are you thinking of her the way
she wants you to or is it just nothing?
You ask...she says..its nothing..

When you are all alone...and all on your own
She wonders...
Who do you think of...
When it is a moment of quietness and silence ..
Who is it that you wonder about?

You ask...she says ...it is nothing!

When you are away and roaming .

.all over the world...
Living on the edge..
Adding fun and adventure to your life..
Do you think of her..she wonders..

When you are with people..others..not her..

She wonders...do you miss her for a little while..
In the midst of music and laughter and friends
and fun.and just guys...do you sit apart for a while ..
and text her a little text...
or call her a little call..and when you do it,
is that a smile...in your eyes.

You ask..

.what is that you are thinking of ?
She says ..

.nothing and ...
wonders..
.all the time!

It is there...in her eyes!

A man who ...as i said..cooks!

A man who can cook is capable and in control. Of his life.
A man who likes to cook is in synch. With his emotional self.
A man who cooks for a woman cares.For her.

A woman wants to be cherished most of all.
A woman wants to be cherished above all.

Nothing is more cherishing than being taken care of..
for an evening..for a night..for a lifetime.

Nothing is more cherishing than being the one.
Nothing says it better than a dinner ...
cooked by ..the one!

Girls just do wanna have fun!!!! Second edition!

A woman is a girl..

Remember?

And girls...they want to have ..

.lots and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of fun!

Each day is a new day...each day a new adventure...each adventure is..fun!

To take the dare that is life ......

.to bring in a rare sense of joy to all that she does.

and never lose the sisterhood ...that adds so much to the fun..

For a girl always knows in her heart that ..

life is all about happiness ...joy...

. a girl searches for that harmony...within ..and without!

A man who cooks...

Truly..
  A woman needs to be cherished.
A woman wants to be cherished.
A woman loves to be cherished.
To be cherished in a woman's vocabulary is..

 to be loved..

A man who cherishing enough ..
Rather a man who is cherishing enough
to show that he cares..

A man who will cook for her..

A woman wants a man who cooks
because she knows something...

A woman knows that a man who cooks..... is man enough to create an enriching emotional life..

 

     
       

That perfect evening! Part two!

A woman wants a perfect evening...now perfection is not really easy to find..Then perhaps one can begin with romance...A romantic evening then..She is radiant in her new hope and glows...from within..

Where do we go/ what do we do/ now that she has found out what will she wear/ the next question /raising its head must be answered/so what is that perfect destination...

 Just the two of us / a perfect sunset by the sea /a soft breeze/ just the right end to the perfect day/
 so much to look at..so much to share/ so much to say..

And then the final question...The man.!Will he care enough to call ? Will he care enough to be there on time ? Will the door bell ring when the clock strikes nine? Will he be happy to see her?Will he care enough to be dressed fine? Will he treat her right?
Will she find happiness tonight?

And the doorbell rings...

.she opens the door ...dressed right and on time..and the evening begins...

                                      

That perfect evening! part one!

To begin with , there are these dreaming eyes , the reflection of a girls soul..

And then there is this dream...it has three prerequisites.

The first one is the most difficult to answer.

It takes time and thought and effort and planning and searching the wardrobe and pulling everything out and and being desperate and rejecting it all and looking through it again and frantic searching and calling up her best friend and asking her what to wear and discussing three outfits and rejecting them again and looking at her wardrobe with horror and desperation and finally choosing something and whew!

And getting ready..

And feeling ready to take on the world...the first question answered...what should she wear?

LBD and that perfect evening!

A woman wants a little black dress.

Because it symbolizes a perfect evening.

How?

How can a dress symbolize  a perfect evening?

Is that even possible?

A woman has certain dreams ..certain aspirations

and an evening may turn out to be true to those aspirations ..

It may just be a perfect evening...
meanwhile ..
a woman dreams of that perfect evening!

Girls just do wanna have fun!

Shopping !
Talking about shopping!
Dressing up !
Talking about dressing up!
Going out!
Talking about going out!

Dancing...dining..painting..reading...creating!

Girls do a lot of fun things..and they talk and laugh and even...pssst...giggle about all that they do!


So...
Since a woman is a girl even when she is a woman..
Girls have girl- fun doing girl-things and talking it over with their girl friends...having fun girl-style!

maybe a yes...maybe a no...maybe a maybe!

Eventually...
A little bit of thought ...wondering about this and dreaming about that...
A question is asked , it is left hanging  ,unanswered , does this mean a yes?
No...or does this mean a no ...or is this just a may be.

Not everything can be a split second desicion.
Not every problem arrives with a cut and dried solution.
Not every gratification can be an instant one..

Sometimes it is as frivolous as deciding on the right nailpaint..
Sometimes it is as practical as finding the perfect apartment to live in..
Sometimes it is as crucial as finding her one and only soulmate!

A woman wants leisure and liberty to make up her mind!
A woman appreciates one who is willing to wait ...


Wait a while...while she makes up her mind!

LBD!

A woman wants to be herself!

And being herself ..
at certain times would mean being ...

stylish..and svelte and sensual!

As  for those times  the only possibility in the whole wide world  and the whole wide wardrobe is a classic.

A little black dress! An LBD..

And viola....

The girl vanishes..to emerge again.. as a woman!

A woman being herself..
Stylish Svelte...Sensual!